| Location | Belfast |
| Age | 12 years |
| Date of Birth | 31/01/1996 |
| Date of Death | 23/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 298 since 04/11/2008 |
| Creator |
Fergus was a Golden Labrador who Blessed our lives for nigh on 13 years. He was more than just a
pet he was the child that we never had the blessing of having, He was the most gentle loving dog you
could wish to meet, At first he was a lively active dog who loved going for walks 5 times a day he
would let you know if you forgot or were late. he would follow us to bed but would not sleep on the
bed but in the doorway guarding you whilst you slept in the morning when i got up for work he would
take my place staying there until Rene got up. As the years passed fergus started to show signs of
Arthritis which got worse he couldnt climb the stairs so he started sleeping at the base of the
stairs. In 2006 we sold the house bought a Zafira (this helped as it was easier getting in and out
of) moved into a bungalow were we spent the last 2 1/2 years looking after fergus as his health got
worse we took him to the vets who examined him and found that his internal organs were failing they
advised that it would be best for him if he was allowed to go, this was the hardest thing we had
ever done agreeing to fergus being put to sleep, We were allowed to go and see him before this
happened which we did spending precious time with him When we entered the kennel where he was being
kept he didnt move a muscle until rene started talking to him he raised his head and tride to get up
which he failed to do rene fussed him for awhile then left i stayed getting down on the floor with
him as i did this he raised his paw and placed it on my wrist at this time the vet came in put the
injection into the drip and asked if she could continue I nodded focusing my attention on fergus
fussing him after a few seconds he lowered his head to the floor between his paws his eyes stayed
open then she said thats it he went peacefully she checked his pulse confirming he had passed on at
1050hrs on thursday 23 october the worst day of my life. Take Care Bud will you ever forgive me.
Precious Love
The agony is so great...
and yet I will stand it.
Had I not loved so very much...
I would not hurt so much.
But God knows I would not want to diminish
that precious love...
By one fraction of an ounce.
I will hurt...
And I will be grateful for that hurt
For it bears witness to the depth of my love.
And for that I will be eternally grateful.
AUTHOR:UNKNOWN
A letter from your pet in heaven
Author Unknown
To my dearest family,
some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know,
that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from the Bridge.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here there's no more tears of sadness.
Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy
just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me
and He said, "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
They'll be here later on."
God gave me a list of things,
that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list,
was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night
the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you...
in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years,
because you are only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,
unless there were some rain.
I wish that I could tell you
all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you,
you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain,
though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now,
than I ever was before.
There are rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it
by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy
and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world,
the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody
who's in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night...
"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented...
that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along
I made somebody smile.
God says: "If you meet somebody
who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up,
as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street
with me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind."
"And when it's time for you to go...
from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going...
you're coming here to me."
lots of love xx
I went out for a walk
It was so lovely in the sun.
Chasing the leaves, I was having so much fun.
Jumping and climbing I could have done it all day.
When I stopped to rest, I realised I had lost my way.
I love and miss you and want you to know , it was nothing you have done.
I just got carried away with playing in the sun.
Please try not to worry too much about me.
I can look after myself, and in a way I am free.
Although I'll never stop looking for a way home, we will never be apart.
I will always feel your love for me, deep within my heart.
It may be all we have for now, but it's enough for me.
Cause you'll never know when I'll walk through your door
and expect you to have my tea.
On your birthday xx
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
missing you Fergus x
High on whispered wings I fly,
a brilliant star, I light the sky.
Toward the sun I soar so free,
a brilliant rainbow follows me.
I pulsate through your very soul
and in my paws your heart I hold.
The day will come when you'll fly too,
I'll be here then to welcome you.
Until the time we meet again
I won't journey far my friend.
For in your love I live so free,
a brilliant rainbow guiding me.
I know what you're thinking. You think I'm dead. Because you cannot see me with your human eye, cannot feel me with your hands or hold me in your arms, you think I am gone forever.
You recall how I looked when I left this place, and you cannot remotely imagine that I could possibly be alive in another place. You are racked and torn by the pain of our separation and it blinds you to that which is right in front of you... me..............
I'm here to tell you different. You were worthy of my love and undying devotion on earth as I of yours. Do you really believe this love would be snatched from us forever by a loving Creator simply because I wasn't human? Was I not a living, breathing creation with personality? How could I have been so if I didn't possess the energy of soul, spirit and loving light? And if this energy is and always will be, then how can it be that I am dead?
.................
You say that all you have left are memories. Not so. You see, when I took leave of my earthly body I left a little something behind for you. You can't touch it, hold it or examine it for what I left behind is far too uninhibited for confinement. I left behind a piece of my soul. I placed it right next to your own which is quite fitting as we were always side by side in our earthly life together. I love you too much to have left you with nothing but memories, which tend to fade and grow cloudy as the years go by.
I love you too much to have vanished without a trace. How selfish it would be of me to remove love and light from your life.
.............
I understand your tears, each one you shed is testament to your love for me and I am honored and humbled. But don't forget the good things we shared - remember and smile. This is an honor for me as well. And when you need me I will be here. Close your eyes, relax, take slow, deep breaths and picture me in your mind. Shut off the world and your notions of what death is and give me a chance. Look for the subtle signs I send you. Don't stop being proud of me, I am a friend to be proud of, I am still your friend and soul mate.
Don't memorialize the death of my body but instead honor and celebrate my never-ending life for it is eternal and forever as is my love for you.
Until we meet again...
Author Unknown
(Passage from UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN)
A lovely memorial for a lovely dog,i know how you feel,when we had to put our 8 year old black lab Charlie to sleep in March,it felt like worst day of my life,he walked into vet's with me,my husband & my dad,not knowing what was going to happen to him,i held his paw til he took his last breath,the vet told me to keep talking to him because he would still hear me,i must admit the pain in my heart is still there,but we did get another dog,which has helped,take care x
f it should be that I grow frail and weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this -- the last battle -- can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
But don't let grief then stay your hand,
For on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship must stand the test.
We have had so many happy years,
You wouldn't want me to suffer so.
When the time comes, please, let me go.
Take me to where to my needs they'll tend,
Only, stay with me till the end
And hold me firm and speak to me
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time you will agree
It is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved.
Don't grieve that it must be you
Who has to decide this thing to do;
We've been so close -- we two -- these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
Michelle (Fergus Family!)
This Memorial Is So Nice All So True About Him Was Crying There Readin It Soo Sad! RIP Fergus.. At Least We Know Hes At Rest And Went Peacfully..So Weird Going Into The House Knowing Hes Not Going To Be There :( But We Know Hes Really There In Spirit Because He Wouldnt Really Leave Yous.. He Was The Most Smartest Dog Ever ive Seen.. ii Remember 4 Years Ago In England The Way He Ran About Playing With Me And His Ball In the Back. And I Thought It Was Great Cuz Uncle Graham Told Me To Hold My Hand Up To Him But Dont Say Nothing And He Just Set Down Then It Was Jst Puttin 1 Finger Up And He Lied Down And He Done Lots Of Other Tricks,He Was Trained Very Well And Will Never Be Replaced Didnt Think I Miss Him As Much As I Do Tho I Hadnt Been Round To The House Everyday Like I Used To Be But I Loved To Go Round And See Fergus Because He Was The Most Friendlyest Big Lovely Dog! Didnt Ever Think I See This Day Like.. RIP Fergus Missin U Loadss ! xoxoxox
BLESS I HAVE TO SAY WHAT A WONDERFUL FAITHFUL DOG FERGUS WAS , AFTER READING HIS MEMORIAL I JUST CRIED, I REMEMBERED OUR BRANDY HE WAS A LAB AND WE HAD TO HAVE HIM PUT TO SLEEP AND WHEN I PHONED THE VET TO SAY COME OVER , ME MY DAD,MUM AND HUSBAND ALL SAT ON THE FLOOF WITH HIM, AND AS YOU SAID IT WAS ONE OF THE WORST DAYS OF OUR LIFES,
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